{"id":1035,"date":"2014-09-07T18:05:19","date_gmt":"2014-09-08T01:05:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/?p=1035"},"modified":"2014-09-07T18:05:19","modified_gmt":"2014-09-08T01:05:19","slug":"you-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/you-2\/","title":{"rendered":"YOU"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s so easy to feel uncared for when people aren\u2019t able to communicate and connect with you in the way that you need. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>And it\u2019s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Most people are so caught up in their own responsibilities, struggles, and anxiety that the thought of asking someone else how they\u2019re doing doesn\u2019t even cross their mind. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>They aren\u2019t inherently bad or uncaring \u2014 they\u2019re just busy and self-focused. And that\u2019s okay. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>It\u2019s not evidence of some fundamental failing on your part. It doesn\u2019t make you unlovable or invisible. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>It just means that those people aren\u2019t very good at looking beyond their own world. But the fact that you are \u2014 that despite the darkness you feel, you have the ability to share your love and light with others \u2014 is a strength. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Your work isn\u2019t to change who you are; it\u2019s to find people who are able to give you the connection you need. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>Because despite what you feel, you are not too much. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>You are not too sensitive or too needy. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>You are thoughtful and empathetic. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>You are compassionate and kind. <\/span>\u00a0<\/span>And with or without anyone\u2019s acknowledgement or affection, you are enough.<\/span>\u00a0 <\/span>Cheers to YOU!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s so easy to feel uncared for when people aren\u2019t able to communicate and connect with you in the way that you need. \u00a0And it\u2019s so hard not to internalize that silence as a reflection on your worth. \u00a0But the truth is that the way other people operate is not about you. \u00a0Most people are […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1035"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1035"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1035\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1036,"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1035\/revisions\/1036"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1035"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1035"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sistahology.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1035"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}