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The sad truth is that there are some people who will only be there for you as long as you have something they need. When you no longer serve a purpose to them, they will leave. The good news is, if you tough it out, you’ll eventually weed these people out of your life and be left with some great people you can count on. We rarely lose friends and lovers, we just gradually figure out who our real ones are. So when people walk away from you, let them go. Your destiny is never tied to anyone who leaves you. It doesn’t mean they are bad people; it just means that their part in your story is over.  Cheers to be welling to accept Game Over!

Happy Mother’s Day!

A strong woman is one who feels deeply and loves fiercely.  Her tears flow just as abundantly as her laughter.

A strong woman is both soft and powerful.  She is both practical and spiritual.

A strong woman in her essence is a gift to everyone in her life and to the entire World.

Cheers to the woman who shows what it takes to be one.

If you keep going backwards with the same people that God has intentionally removed from your life, you will continue to stay stuck. There is no joy in being confused and unhappy. Get rid of old bad habits and leave them where they belong. What is meant for you will be yours, learn to let go. Dysfunction isn’t love. I have realized when someone is not meant to be a part of your life God removes them in any possible way. Just take it as a sign that person was never meant to be a part of your life and that God has a better plan for you. We may plan’ but his plans are always better, where just not in a position where we can see the future. So take blessings from every loss.

Stop thinking about how the past hurt you and start being thankful for what it taught you. Don’t get caught up in emotions and don’t pine for something that wasn’t meant to be yours. Don’t allow people with no purpose to distract you away from yours. Some people just don’t deserve the opportunity to faze you or the power to make you mad. You will get it wrong at times so expect to be judged, expect to be doubted, and expect to be talked about, but understand that your mission is greater than your mistakes. Don’t waste valuable time trying to prove yourself to pointless people. Accept where you’ve been, understand where you are, and focus on where you’re going. Let God handle the rest.  Cheers to Non-Factors, everyone has some!